Life's Negotiations - the ones you make everyday
as you take on something new.

Life's Negotiations

Fully steeped in adulthood, surrounded by decisions, responsibility and people counting on you requires a certain negotiation between what you want and what others want.

Wednesday, February 27, 2008 life coachingcreativity
It's in the way you walk

Since moving back to New York City in 2006, I often explore my neighborhood, or one of the parks nearby. Not until a few months ago though did I know how to make the most out of it.

This fall I learned about a Pilgrim Walk. Not sure where the name comes from - maybe the early settlers in America striking it out on their own in uncharted territory.

No matter. It's simple and really worked for me.

Friday, February 15, 2008 relationshipsNew York Timesin the news
Listen up hubby, it's Date Night!

I had to share this article, so appropriately timed to Valentine's Day last week. It's called "Reinventing Date Night for Long-Married Couples."

Since it's the NY Times Health section, there is science involved - they split couples into several groups to compare ones with normal date routines of dinner-and-a-movie to ones who did something new each time, i.e. dancing and hiking. The results: the ones who did something different were happier and released positive endorphins, like the kind you release when you first start dating someone.

My inital reaction: who agreed to this experiment?