The formula for leaping

“How will I get there?”

If you have an inkling about what you want next, that’s usually the next question that pops into your mind.

That question can also stop you in your tracks. “If I don’t know how I’ll get there, how can I begin?”

But knowing what you want is more than enough, and the only step to think about is the first one. Taking a step is how you get there, rather than worrying about figuring out the “right” step.

This is the formula for any and every leap:

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Just because something looks simple, doesn’t mean it’s easy.

I get it. You still want to know if it’ll work out. If these baby steps will produce the results you want.

They will.

It’s why the second step in this super-simple, super-effective formula is to Keep Going. If you consistently take another step, no matter how small, you will get to a result beyond what you ever thought was possible.

Start and Keep Going.

That means if you’ve already started and you haven’t achieved your goal (or another goal more amazing than you had in mind, because that happens too!), then you are in the Keep Going stage.

Keep taking a step, keep trying new things, keep asking for help, keep focusing on your goal…

You’re getting there.

I believe that, have experienced it myself and have witnessed clients do the same. It works.

If you need help clarifying where to Start or accountability in the Keep Going department, I’m opening up my signature program, Career Clarity & Community, on February 6. An intimate circle of 8 women leaning on and learning from one another as they leap together. There’s a virtual seat with your name on it.

Start and Keep Going. I believe in you!

Why it's better to fail than to quit

9 out of 10 A-students agree: quitting is safer because at least you won't FAIL. 

Failing is scary!

What's even scarier is the thought of failing, which is why most of us quit way before we're anywhere near actually failing. It's easier to head things off at the pass and save face. 

You stop promoting your workshop before the deadline or don’t go to that second job interview, because seeing it through puts you in the precarious position of everyone seeing you. If you succeed or fail is out there, and it’s uncomfortable.

Let's avoid any risk of that.

When asked in the past about my own quitting, I used to say, "I'd rather get it right or not do it at all."

What kind of leeway does that provide for trying new things and learning? The whole point of owning a business and leaping of any kind.  

If it's not clear why this is important, consider that taking the safe route, never approaching even the possibility of failure, means staying in an unfulfilling career. You could keep doing what you're doing for the rest of your working days and just being okay about it. Another A-student nightmare. 

If you want to do what you love, you need to not quit when it gets uncomfortable.  

Because, while quitting means you won't fail, it also means you won't achieve your goal either. Many people sign up last minute for workshops, maybe they are waiting to do the same for yours. Maybe they want to make you an offer if you can just meet one more time. You don't know, and the only way to find out is to keep going. Keep putting in the consistent effort as if you WILL succeed.

Because then, it works.

You deserve to succeed and learn and grow and leap and get back up again supported by the rest of us who feel just like you. Gulp.

How do you stick with it when you want to quit? I look for ways to take a fresh perspective.

  • Ask for help.
  • Take a couple of deep breaths.
  • Play outside.
  • Read words that inspire you.
  • Listen to upbeat music.
  • Do the opposite of what you'd normally do.
  • Treat this like a game, and take the pressure off. 
  • Be scared & do it anyway.

Or, you can hang out the window, but I wouldn’t recommend it. 

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Whatever you do, KEEP GOING!

I believe so much in you.

What helps you risk failure and keep going?